I’m Kate, daughter of Julia, granddaughter of Beverly, mother of Remi & Jules.

Motherhood broke me open and carried me home to myself. As many women do, I floundered and flourished in my journey from maiden to mother but didn’t have the words or cultural understanding to normalize my experience. 

Matrescence is the invisible transition our patriarchal society has taught us to ignore. Naming it, honoring it and documenting it has carried me back to my feminine power in ways that extend far beyond motherhood but fuel my parenting all the same.

Using my deep connection to and compassion for the journey from maiden to mother along with my personal experiences with traumatic birth and postpartum suffering, I am honored to create space for women to better understand and reflect on their own matrescence and guide them to compassionate and empowering healing. 

I believe birth stories and the honest reflections we have on pregnancy and motherhood are an important exercise in self-liberation and soul exploration, which, beautifully, are some of the most nourishing gifts we can give to ourselves that benefit our children.

I also believe that if men birthed babies, birth stories would have their own section in the newspaper :)

The matrescence guidance and documentation I offer comes out of a 15-year career as a professional writer and is in service of women finding and honoring their truest selves, work I am honored to guide.

Kate SEaton

Mother, Matrescence guide, writer

experience & philosophy

As a matrescence guide, I work with women at all points on the journey to and through motherhood, from considering becoming a parent to surrendering to what motherhood delivers for you.

my guidance and space holding centers on you and your truth, no matter what motherhood looks like for you or how you come to it.

I bring learnings from a range of coursework, life experiences, self work, and support groups, including wisdom from my own matrescence, studies with Birth Story Medicine, personal experiences in traumatic birth and postpartum suffering, as well as the feminine experience i’ve witnessed in others through mothers groups, women’s circles, and friendships.

COurses

birth story medicine - 2024

the liberating motherhood experience (dr. sophie brock) - 2024

Experiences

refuge marin closed women’s circle (september 2023-present)

let’s get real moms group by sarah ezrin and metta mama (Spring & Summer 2024)

traumatic birth processing with therapist and birth story listening

TEACHERS & GUIDES

remi grace seaton who broke me open

jules read seaton who revealed my truth

steph trzaska, my life’s work midwife

tracy hoffstatter an endless source of permission and healing

holly seerly whose compassionate voice still rings in my mind

sarah ezrin who cares deeply about supporting mothers

amy gordon who taught me no woman should be without a circle

rachel goudey a fierce advocate of sisterhood

the brave women of our circle who lead with truth and vulnerability

BOOKs & Podcasts

the motherhood space by gabrielle nancarrow

the birth space by gabrielle nancarrow

wild feminine by tami lynn kent

wild mothering by tami lynn kent

expanded by to be magnetic

magic hour by taylor paige

little scraps of magic by steph trzaska